Should You Take Your Ex Back? 5 Signs That It’s Not Time Yet

Are you thinking of getting back to your ex but are having second thoughts? If you really want to give the relationship another try, you obviously want things to be much better than they previously were. However, this may not always be the case, especially if the other partner is unwilling or isn’t ready to get back with you. There are various things you should look out for before making your decision.

  1. They use your friends/family to reach you

If your ex-partner is using your family and/or friends to pass you a message rather than coming to you and facing you, chances are that they have something to hide. We’re not talking about them being “friendly “to your own family members and friends. There’s nothing wrong with that, and in fact it’s good to have someone who can get along with people you care about. However, if you repeatedly hear from your buddies things like “he says he still loves you” or “she says she wants you back”, then you should be wary. There’s a high probability that your ex is doing this because they know that you won’t believe them (for a good reason) when they say those same things to you.

  1. They play stupid mind-games

Another sign that you should not get back to your ex yet is if they’re still playing mind-games with you or acting in a way that they’re manipulating your emotions . For example, doing certain things or uses hero instinct phrases to make you get jealous or angry, telling you they’ve moved on now and later telling you they want you back. It could be worse if they’re ignoring you. These can be an indication that your ex is not serious about getting back together and it’s best to stay away to avoid getting hurt even more.

  1. They claim all the responsibility

If your ex takes all the blame for the break up (doesn’t let you own up for your part in the break up), it’s best to shelve your thoughts of a reunion for some time. They may keep saying things such as “You were a great person, it’s I who messed up” or “You are wonderful, I made you do this and that”. This is just “emotional bribery”. A relationship is made and destroyed by two people, not one. If your ex doesn’t get this simple fact, you’re likely to experience the same problems that resulted in your break up.

  1. Doesn’t show any interest about you

You should reconsider getting back to your ex if anytime they contact you ( whether in person , email or phone) they’re always talking about themselves and trying to convince you they’ve changed. Even when they’re talking about the relationship or even you, you realize they don’t have an honest interest in caring about what you think or your needs and wishes. Don’t fall for them yet. They may have hidden selfish interests and it’s best to play a waiting game.

  1. They blame other people/reasons

If your ex still blames someone else ( for instance you, your relatives (s) , your friend (s), or other people) for the problems you faced in the relationship or for the break-up, it may not be the right time yet to rekindle the love . The chances of you finding solutions to the problems that faced the relationship may be very slim and you’ll likely end up breaking up.

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Yoga Poses for Women for a Healthy Living

Women are responsible, resourceful and encouraging -productive at work, and super-heroes at home! Without them, a family or workplace is incomplete. They hold a special status in our souls and lives. Have you ever thought how stressed these beautiful minds are? While they look after everybody around them, they neglect themselves and care the least about their health and bodies. For today’s busy women, yoga is the only answer to their well-being and long-term good health. We recommend these 5 Yoga Poses for Women.

1. The Plank Pose

Benefit: Useful for making arms, shoulder, back, core and quadricep strong. It is also beneficial for building upper body strength.

How to do it?

– Begin on all fours with your feet and knees hip-width separated. Place your hands approximately shoulder-width apart and expand your fingers far from each other.

– Face downward and squeeze into your palms and bring your ribs forward in such a way that your shoulders are immediately above your wrists.

– Push your heels toward the surface behind you and extend the top of your head in the forward direction to form a vertical line from the tip of your head to your feet. Keep the position for at least one minute.

2. The Tree Pose

Benefit: When your mind feels messed up and agonized, following this pose will help you attain calmness and tranquility. It is useful for strengthening the spine and legs.

How to do it?

– Stand with your feet and legs concurrently and hands on haunches. Shift your burden to your left foot as you curl your right knee and put the bottom of your right foot on the interior of your left leg.

– Face earthward, lift your arms straight up in the air, press your palms together. Draw your ribs in front in such a way that your shoulders are directly above your wrists.

3. The Boat Pose

Benefit: The boat pose helps in strengthening your upper torso and arms.

How to do it?

– Sit with your knee joints bent and feet level on the floor. Bend back somewhat. Elevate your legs, so that your calf muscles are lateral to the ground with knees bent.

– Stretch your arms in front, parallel to the ground and palms facing inside. Keep your chest raised and your core occupied. Slowly begin to unfold your legs. Continue for at least 5 minutes. Repeat 3-4 times.

4. The Embryo Pose

Benefit: This pose is excellent for relieving tightness in the lower back.

How to do it?

– Bend on a yoga mat with your toes touching the ground and knees apart. Rest on your heels.

– Lay your trunk in between your thighs and touch your forehead on the mat. Stretch your arms vertical in the forward direction, palms on the floor. Shut your eyes and inhale strongly. Sustain the position for atleast one minute.

5. The Camel Pose

Benefit: This pose is excellent for restoring the spine, loosening the chest and toning the thighs.

How to do it?

– Sit on floor on your knees and bend backward in such a way that you throw your head backward and look towards the ceiling.

– Take you hands behind of back and try to hold your toes while maintaining the back bend posture. Hold for two-three minutes.

Yoga for women is the best way to live a stress free and energy filled life. Do try these poses for a healthy body and mind!

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Benefits of Muscle Building Explained

Many people think of working out and building muscles just for the aesthetics part of it–to look good, to look impressive, to look intimidating, and to look tough. However, some people do it for more than just to look good. These people are in it for the health benefits that weight training provides. And if you’ll consider all those benefits, you’ll see that looking good is actually just a bonus. Some of the benefits of muscle building include

· It makes you stronger: If you want to become stronger than you are right now, the best thing to do is to grow muscles, when you become stronger you will be able to do so many things with ease.

· It attracts attention: This is the reason why some people do muscle building, they want to get attracted to the opposite sex.

· It helps to increase your body metabolism: If you want to lose weight, Body Building is a good option because your body fat reduces quickly when you increase your body metabolism rate. You will be able to use up your entire daily calorie intake and use up some of your body fat.

· It gives you confidence; this is what so many people lack. If you are skinny or overweight, you won’t have confidence in yourself but if you build muscles, your confidence will improve.

· It helps you live longer: This is the main reason why people who are above 40 years are very interested in building muscles. It is almost impossible to find a muscle builder who has diabetes and this is a major killer disease. So if you want to protect your body from diseases, grow your muscles to make it stronger.

· Increased Bone Density: Studies have demonstrated that weight-bearing exercises (or strength training) increase bone density and improve bone health thus lessening a person’s risk of suffering from osteoporosis and stress fractures.

With the above advantages of muscle building, you will agree with me that it is good for everyone to participate in body building. Also, make sure you follow a good program or buy a good muscle building product.

If you have been using a product or workout routine for a long time and it is not working, it is better to stop and find a better workout routine.

Some people think that if they stop growing muscles, their muscles will turn to fat, this is not true as muscle and fat are two different things.

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